As the temperatures drop and winter settles in, many couples find themselves spending more time indoors. The chilly weather can create the perfect opportunity to cosy up and explore new ways to connect intimately. If you're looking to spice things up this season, here are some of the best sex positions for cold weather.
1. Spooning
Spooning is a classic position autumn sex position that feels intimate and comforting. As you and your partner nestle close together, the warmth of your bodies can be incredibly inviting during the colder months. This position allows for skin-to-skin contact, which can help you both feel warm and connected.
How to Do It
To get into this position, lie on your sides with your partner behind you. You can wrap your arms around each other for added intimacy. This position is also great for gentle thrusting and can be easily adjusted for comfort.
2. The Cowgirl
The Cowgirl position allows your partner to take control, making it an exciting and dynamic sex position for winter. This position is particularly good for cold weather because it encourages close body contact and allows for eye contact and kissing.
How to Do It
Have your partner straddle you whilst you lie on your back. They can control the pace and depth, making it an empowering experience for them. You can help guide their movements by holding their hips or thighs.
3. Seated Lotus
The Seated Lotus position is both intimate and comfortable, making it perfect for a cosy winter night. This position encourages closeness and eye contact, enhancing emotional connection.
How to Do It
Sit cross-legged or with your legs extended on the floor whilst your partner sits on your lap, wrapping their legs around your waist. This allows for deep penetration and plenty of skin contact, keeping you both warm.
4. The Spooning Stand
If you're looking for something a little different from traditional spooning, try the Spooning Stand. This position adds a twist by incorporating standing dynamics, which can be thrilling and energising.
How to Do It
Stand side by side with your partner, then turn to face each other and wrap your arms around one another. You can lift your partner slightly to maintain a spooning-like embrace whilst engaging in thrusting. This position keeps the heat up and can be fun to experiment with.
5. The Classic Missionary
Missionary may be a classic, but it’s also incredibly versatile. In cold weather, it can feel particularly cosy as you can snuggle close and enjoy warmth from each other’s bodies.
How to Do It
Have your partner lie on their back whilst you position yourself on top. You can support yourself on your hands or lower onto your elbows for a more intimate experience. Don’t forget to maintain eye contact and engage in kissing.
6. The Reverse Cowgirl
The Reverse Cowgirl position offers a different angle for penetration, which can heighten sensations for both partners. It also allows for some exciting views, adding an element of novelty.
How to Do It
Have your partner straddle you as in the Cowgirl position, but this time, they face away from you. They can control the rhythm and intensity whilst you can enjoy watching them move. This position allows for lots of skin contact and closeness, perfect for winter intimacy.
7. The Bridge
The Bridge position can be a fun way to add some playfulness to your winter activities. It combines strength and flexibility, making it a great option for those looking to try something new.
How to Do It
Have your partner lie on their back and lift their hips off the ground, creating a bridge shape. You can kneel between their legs and penetrate from this elevated position. This angle can offer deep sensations and the act of holding the bridge position can be exciting.
8. The Plough
The Plough position allows for deep penetration, making it thrilling during the colder months. The closeness can create a warm, intimate experience that is perfect for cuddling afterward.
How to Do It
Have your partner lie on their back and lift their legs over your shoulders. You can penetrate deeply whilst they relax into the position. Use pillows for added comfort and support, making this position enjoyable for longer periods.
9. The Standing Doggie
The Standing Doggie position is adventurous and can be exhilarating during colder months. It keeps the energy up and encourages spontaneity, which can be exciting when stuck indoors.
How to Do It
Stand behind your partner whilst they bend forward slightly, supporting themselves on a stable surface. You can penetrate from behind and the position allows for deeper thrusts. This is a great way to keep warm whilst exploring different dynamics.
10. The Hot Chocolate Cuddle
Whilst not a traditional sex position, the Hot Chocolate Cuddle is perfect for colder weather. It emphasises intimacy and connection, focusing on emotional closeness rather than just physical interaction.
How to Do It
Prepare some hot chocolate (or your favourite warm drink) and snuggle up together under blankets. This cosy setting allows for light touching, kissing and playful teasing, making it a delightful prelude to more intimate activities.
What Winter Sex Position Will You Try First?
As the temperature drops and winter sets in, take the opportunity to connect with your partner on a deeper level with our winter warmer sex positions. Whether you prefer the cosy embrace of spooning or the playful dynamics of standing positions, there's something for everyone to enjoy!
For more on our blog, read about does the weather affect your sex drive and 4 top tips to stay cool during sex.
