As the weather gets colder and trees turn from lush green to multi-hued oranges, reds and browns, it’s time to start getting ready for the holidays! We all know the wholesome cosy winter celebrations – Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year, and more. But what about the holidays for kinky couples and saucy solos? Well, get out your calendar and mark the date, because this year you have to celebrate Spanksgiving.
Though the origins of this adult Thanksgiving are murky, the premise is simple – it’s a time for coming together (pun fully intended) and indulging in our sexual appetites. Spanking, as the name might suggest, is a popular choice for this holiday, but really, it’s up to you what kind of sexy times you get up to. So, grab a partner, or settle down solo, and take a look at our five favourite ideas for a very happy Spanksgiving.
Get Decked Out in Sensual Sexy Clothing
Nothing says a happy Spanksgiving like getting decked out in some sexy clothing. Sexy clothes can help get you in the mood, boost your confidence and provide a real treat for your partner. Lingerie is the classic option, from cute teddies to crotchless panties. And, of course, since it is the season, why not choose some spanking pants – backless panties for easy access to some naughty holiday spanking fun? Suspenders, thigh-high stockings or garter belts can be the perfect finishing touch for a sensual, empowering adult Thanksgiving outfit.
Do Some Saucy Spanksgiving Sexting
There’s nothing like sexting to help you and your partner get into the Spanksgiving holiday spirit. Sexting can be the perfect warm-up for sex – start early in the day to get both of you hot and bothered before the main event. Sexting can also be perfect for long-distance couples or anyone who might not be able to spend the holidays together, helping you stay intimately connected even when apart. Sexy messaging can also be the perfect way to get in the mood for some solo pleasure, whether with a casual sex partner or your long-term love.
Splash Out on Some New Toys
The holidays are a time for giving – and receiving – gifts, so now is the perfect time to treat yourself to a new toy. If you’re a sex toy newbie, why not look into one of the classics: vibrators, dildos, butt plugs or cock rings. Sex toys can be great options for solo fun or sex with a partner, bringing delicious intensity to your orgasms and the thrill of something new to enjoy and explore.
Make sure you understand how to use and clean your new sex toy. With most sex toys, it’s a good idea to invest in lube to make your play frictionless and seamlessly sensual. Always choose the type of lube recommended by the manufacturer of the sex toy – water-based lubricants are a popular recommendation. And remember, for any anal play, plenty of lube is a must!
Enjoy a Decadent Home Massage
Massage can be just the thing to get you in the mood before sex. It can be the perfect opener to your adult Thanksgiving celebrations. Invest in some sensual massage oil for a truly decadent massage session. Consider watching some tutorials with your partner, so you have a better idea of how to give a truly sensual massage. While you both get lost in the pleasure of touch, maybe get things started with some dirty talk. Let the massage naturally move to more erotic places, such as the breasts, inner thighs and butt. This can create a natural transition from relaxation to arousal, perfect for getting your Spanksgiving started on the right foot!
Try Out Some Kinky Spanking Aids
What’s a happy Spanksgiving without some actual spanking? The act itself is pretty simple – all you need is two (or more!) consenting people. But the holidays call for something a little more special. If you love incorporating spanking into sex already, why not level things up with some spanking aids? Things like spanking canes, whips and paddles can add some sensual BDSM vibes to your sexy times.
Take the Next Steps to a Very Happy Spanksgiving
So there you have it! Our favourite, delightfully sensual ways to celebrate this year’s adult Thanksgiving. Whether you want to stay true to the name with some spanking fun, branch out into new toys, or anything else that sparks your imagination, you’ve got what you need to have a pleasure-filled holiday. Happy Spanksgiving, everyone!
Want some more sexy inspiration for Spanksgiving? Read all about 10 Autumnal Foods To Boost Your Libido and The Best Sex Positions to Try as The Weather Gets Colder on our blog.
