It can be tricky to know how to use adult toys when you’re first starting out. There are so many available and each one can be used in a multitude of ways. The first thing to know is there’s no specific best way to use a sex toy – the best way to use a sex toy is the way that feels good for you.
That said, there are some amazing ways to use sex toys with a partner and solo that are almost universally enjoyed. The key thing is to go slow and learn what brings you and your partner the most pleasure. So, let’s get into our favourite six ways to use sex toys and enjoy maximum pleasure.
Put on a Show
A deliciously arousing option for both partners is to teasingly perform with your toy. This could be done in person, when sexting, or even solo with the help of a mirror. Many couples enjoy watching their partners get themselves off, and the addition of adult toys will only add to the excitement. Consider using a vibrator, dildo, or butt plug in front of your partner, as a part of foreplay before sex, or as the main event itself. The only limit on how to use adult toys is your imagination. This is truly one of the most amazing ways to use sex toys with a partner.
Long Distance Pleasure
Long-distance relationships are hard for many reasons, and lack of intimacy can be a big one. Sexting and phone sex can go a long way to bridging that gap, and toys can make the experience into something truly special. You could play with a vibrator while talking dirty with your partner, or use a dildo and pretend they’re with you in person. For something a little more thrilling, why not give your partner control over your pleasure with a remote control vibrator? This can give the sensual, exciting experience of not knowing when the next wave of pleasure will come – the anticipation will get you into the mood like nothing else.
Create a Clone
Make sure you never miss the feeling of your partner’s penis when they’re away again! Getting a penis clone kit can ensure that even when you’re going solo, your partner is involved. Using a penis clone kit together is the ultimate sexy arts and crafts experience. You can use your clone willy for anything you can think of in the bedroom – for solo pleasuring sessions, during sex, or for mutual masturbation sessions. Cloned penis dildos can also be a great way to prepare for anal sex.
Unleash Your Kinky Side with Bondage Toys
Bondage toys are some of the kinkier, amazing ways to use sex toys with a partner. From sex handcuffs to blindfolds to fetish clothing, bondage can add a real thrill to the bedroom. Make sure to discuss the idea of being tied up, or doing the tying up, before you begin any play. Agreed on boundaries and limits to ensure everyone has a safe, exciting and deliciously pleasurable time.
Enjoy Mutual Masturbation
Many people think of penetrative sex as the most important form of intimacy between a couple. What many don’t realise is that penetrative sex doesn’t have to be part of every thrilling sexual encounter. Mutual masturbation is an amazing way to use sex toys with a partner – there’s something truly arousing about watching your partner pleasure themselves to the point of orgasm. Likewise, something erotically thrilling about being watched as you touch yourself. To up the arousal factor even more, why not instruct on another on what to do and when – and with which sex toys.
Experiment with Anal
Anal is still considered by some to be a taboo part of sex. This is part of what makes trying out anal so exciting and erotic. Another big part, particularly for heterosexual couples, is that anal can intensify and amplify the pleasure you receive during sex acts. The anus is a highly sensitive area which, when stimulated, can create incredible pleasure and more intense orgasms. Why not try out a butt plug or anal vibrator to start out? When choosing a butt plug, make sure to start small and invest in quality anal lube.
Experience the Best Ways to Use a Sex Toy Today
We hope you enjoyed our deliciously enjoyable ideas on how to use adult toys. Whether you’re having solo fun or trying out a new toy with your partner, toys can bring new intensity to your orgasms. Experiment with the different options we’ve looked at to find the perfect combination for unparalleled pleasure.
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